I’ve just finished this delightful book, The Unraveling of Reverend G, by fellow Heart of America Christian Writers Network author, RJ Thesman. (And fellow CrossRiver Media author. All disclaimers have now been given.) Thesman tackles the difficult question, “What happens to our relationship with God when dementia steals our minds?” And she does it with such spunk that I came away wanting to:
A.)become a lady preacher
B.)own a cat
C.)eat a big bowl of ice cream
D.)develop a relationship with God that will permeate my every reality.
Out of all the moments I loved in the book, though, this one remains in my mind. When Reverend G. starts looking for some way to serve in her current circumstances, she offers to simply go sit beside someone who is suffering. She calls it “The Ministry of Presence.” (Capitals are mine.)
I think this is brilliant. And helpful. And often the only thing we can actually offer that will be of any real value in a tough time. I plan to exercise it much more than I have in the past. Thank you, Reverend G., for reminding me what really matters when everything else in life is shaking. God, and people, and Presence.
(and, ice cream, of course.)
Love the new look, love the post, and the concept of that ministry…..will be trying to practice this more also. I know in the past, I’ve had a few times when I have appreciated that ministry from some, and wished others would practice it more…. 🙂
Thanks, my friend.
The website looks fantastic! So happy for all the exciting things happening in your life. God is good.
Yes, he is, Lauren. Thanks for stopping in and saying “hi”
I can’t remember where I got this from, but it’s a similar principle. When there aren’t any words to say, don’t say any. Just be there.
Oh, yeah.
Thanks, Kathy for the encouragement and compliments about “The Unraveling of Reverend G.” I have a feeling you would make a great Reverend K !