Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: And see if there be any wicked way in me… Psalm 139:23-24
Thirty years ago I walked into a Bible study late. To cover my embarrassment, I made a joke about my friend, Margaret slowing me down. Everyone laughed because Margaret was the most together woman among us.
On the way home, though, Margaret said, “Your joke actually hurt my feelings. I hear you say sarcastic things like that to your husband and children sometimes, and I think it is hurting your relationships.”
I cried for three days. But I came out of that season aware of how I used sarcasm as a defense. Decades later, I still remember that morning. It hasn’t kept me from ever saying a sarcastic word again. It has helped me repent quickly when I do.
Our church is in a season of sifting right now. I encourage you to stand still and let the process work. Let God (and your faithful friends) point out any evil way in you. Then ask the power of the Holy Spirit to help you change. I promise your friendships with God and with other people will be better than ever.
If you don’t believe me, we could call up my friend Margaret for a chat.