speakingkathynickThis is the month my first novel arrives on store shelves. Or in the shopping carts of online stores, of course. And here is one of the most important things I’ve learned from the long journey. People are not planks.

The word platform has become a dagger in the heart of many aspiring authors. Publishing houses insist a writer must have a good platform. Which is exactly what it sounds like. A stage. A soap box. A high place from whence we can shout out the news of our forthcoming book to the tens of thousands of people who read our blog, follow us on twitter, or friend us on Facebook.

For most writers, such a platform does not exist. So, we spend hours learning how to grow our following. How to build our crowd. How to get more planks of wood to broaden our stage. And we forget the most important thing.

What we really need is a circle of friends. A few faithful friends who are like the ones Paul mentioned in his letter to the Corinthians. “Epistles written on our heart.” Then each of our friends has another circle of friends. And each of them has a circle of friends. And suddenly relationship spreads the word about a new book on the market. (If it is any good. Please don’t feel obligated to spread news about mine if it bores you.)

So, I’m writing to you today, Dear Reader, to thank you for being my friend. For walking with me on the journey. For encouraging me when I wanted to quit. For cheering with me when things went well. You are much more than a plank in my platform. And I am grateful.